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Feature Article: Expanding your world

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The Actor's Success
The online eZine for Actors
Who want thriving careers
from Robin Jones,
MFA & Certified Life Coach

Volume II, issue 12
December 2005

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One of the things I love about working with my wonderful
clients is that we get to go and meet their "Future Self,"
themselves twenty years in the future. People that meet that
person often find someone that's totally at peace with self
and the world, that has accomplished great things, and a
representation of the whole self.

So I was excited to find this website where you can write an
e-mail to yoursself and have it delivered a year, ten years,
or twenty years in the future.

What do you want to tell your Future Self?

Check it out at http://www.futureme.org/

Meet Bob...

I've never flown into Newark airport, but I think I'd like
to. Go here and you'll see what I mean.

It's people like Bob that make me want to be a better
person. To be more courageous and do things I wouldn't
normally do.

So I post this link to Bob out of appreciation and
inspiration. Hope it has the same effect on you.

And check out the rest of zefrank's site here. It's worth
the time it takes to explore it all.

I've been thinking a lot about risk lately. It always starts
with desire, just the same as good acting, that is, playing
your character's goal and asking, "what is s/he willing to
do to get it?"

Growth never comes without a process of overcoming
challenges, and the steps, in my experience, go something
like this:

1. I'm hungry for something bigger in my life and I'm ready
to have it.

2. Some old habit or mode of thinking wants to keep me from
taking the necessary steps to realize my goal.

3. I get clear on the specific fears I have that would hold
me back.

4. I choose one way or another: either that the risk is too
great and the possibility of failure does not outweigh the
desire I have to succeed, or I take steps forward toward my
goal.

5. I either succeed or not, and win or lose, I always learn
something invaluable and grow my being into something
larger.

Here's an example from my own life that I'm currently in the
midst of. I'm buying a house. It's at once thrilling,
terrifying, comforting, expanding, and a bunch of other
superlatives. It feels great.

At the same time, the costs are quite a bit higher than I'm
used to paying, and old habitual thinking about money tells
me, "you can't afford it." A quick check of the numbers
tells me I can afford it, but it may be tight for a few
months.

When I look at the fear that I have about this move, I
realize it's more about stepping into a larger life than it
is about the money. It's just that I've never been
responsible for paying for and maintaining a house while
working for myself. I'm out of my comfort zone, simple as
that.

Yet when I imagine my family living in that house, I get a
warm feeling of deep satisfaction. Cheesy at it sounds, it
doesn't just feel like a house--it feels like home. I keep
picturing us dancing with young Daphne in our living room,
gardening in our backyard, remodeling our kitchen. Even
blowing insulation into the attic sounds like fun. The value
of owning our own home again far outweighs the possibility
of failure, even though the risk seems great.

So I move ahead in this venture, with both nervousness and
confidence; maybe that's the definition of faith. Whatever
happens, I know that two things will come as a result of
this: one is that I will learn more about who I am and what
I'm capable of. A child learns to walk and it emboldens her
to learn to climb and then to run. Just like that child, I
know that success will push me to take greater risks in the
future.

The other thing that will happen, perhaps the greatest gift
in all of this, is that I will expand my world. As I move
through the process, I realize that the size of my world is
only limited by my imagination and the courage I have to
take on new ventures.

So what have I ally got to lose in all this should I fail? A
few bucks and a few points on my credit score. But what I
have to gain is immeasurable.

What new ventures are calling you? What do you have to lose?
Most importantly, what do you have to gain?

How do you want to expand your world?

Download the attached worksheet to play around with it! It's a
PDF file, so you may need to go to Adobe to download the reader
for fr*ee.

Until next month, I wish you an expansive world,

RJ

© 2005 The Actor's Success & Robin Jones

Robin Jones is a Certified Professional Life Coach specializing in helping actors beat the odds of the business and build thriving careers.Visit www.ActorsSuccess.com to move your career forward now.

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